Sex Coach Confession – The Simple Formula for Full Body Male Orgasms!

Humans learn through repetition and learning to orgasm for the whole body is just another skill that the human body can learn to experience regularly through practice. For example, through practice and repetition, the human body can learn to drive a car without thinking about shifting gears, using the indicators to show which direction the car will turn, etc., and often we can end our journey without thinking think about how we drove our car to get to our destination. Under the right circumstances, men can easily learn a full-body orgasm, with delayed ejaculation, and if your man follows my formula, it’s inevitable that his body will learn good habits to achieve a full-body orgasm.


Learning a full body orgasm is very easy for a man when the male body is extremely relaxed. I’m sure men in shamanic societies encountered a full-body orgasm, as many tribal cultures enjoyed drumming around the campfire in the evenings.

Drum music is the answer to deep relaxation. The sound of drums aligns the brain waves of the human body with the vibrations of the earth, and the percussion sound of drumming will help your man relax so that he can enjoy an orgasm all over the body. Before going to sleep, shamanic cultures went to their tent, their cave or their hut and because there was no external stimulation; ie TV, computers and PlayStation etc. The only other way to pass the time, instead of sleeping, was to make love.

It is my belief that people of shamanic tribes went to bed very relaxed, after listening to the percussion sound of drums, and when they had sex, their bodies already attuned to the vibrations of the earth, easily drifting into the experience of orgasm of the whole body.

Drumming and Relaxation

I am currently using two excellent drum CDs to coach my clients to a full body orgasm. The drum CDs I play during my Ra’Anui Erotic Tantra Massage subconsciously relax every man I coach. Drumming will relax and soothe the male body into a deep relaxation and accompanied by slow arousal, slow breathing and stimulation it is so much easier to coach a full body orgasm to a man one on one.

To breathe

The next part of the formula, for a man to teach the whole body to orgasm, with delayed ejaculation, is to coach his body to breathe slowly.

Men tend to breathe too quickly during intercourse. When boys learn about their bodies during puberty, they are advised not to breathe slowly while masturbating. My 12-year-old son is taking sex education at school this week and I know he’s not being taught to breathe slowly and relax if he enjoys exploring his body.

Breathe slowly

Breathing slowly helps the male body to stay relaxed and also breathing slowly gives the male body ample opportunity to take in adequate oxygen to achieve heightened states of orgasmic bliss.

You see, if your man wants to have a world-class orgasm, his body needs a slow, steady supply of oxygen. Oxygen every cell and the male body finds it very easy to have heightened experiences of ecstasy. Basically, if a man wants to have a full-body orgasm, his brain, nerves, muscles and every cell of his body need oxygen.

Breathe well

Proper breathing technique will help your man achieve full body orgasm and heightened ecstatic state. Coach your man to breathe into his nose and imagine that he is breathing to his belly button. When your man inhales slowly and deeply, his lower abs lift.

When your man exhales, coach him to exhale slowly from his mouth. Note, all energy must be on the inhale; if it takes 2-3 seconds to inhale, coach your guy to exhale very slowly, about 4-5 seconds. When your man slowly exhales his mouth, ask him to visualize his breath passing through his spine and neck into his skull (crown chakra).


Sound amplifies a man’s orgasm and increases its intensity. That means if your man isn’t making any noise in the bedroom, he isn’t really indulging in pleasure. The next time you’re making love, pay attention and if your man isn’t making sounds of pleasure, coach him to relax and do his best to put his feelings into words.

An easy sound to make during foreplay and intercourse is the “aarrrgh” sound when your man breathes slowly from his mouth while aroused. If your man is very self-conscious about noise, a whisper of “aarrrgh” will do the trick too!

SLOW excitement

The male body loves the experience of orgasm and every man’s body is wired from birth with an A1 premium orgasmic wiring system capable of experiencing alien altered states of bliss and ecstasy.

While a man’s multi-orgasmic abilities in puberty are fully functional, no instructions are provided and the average man doesn’t know how to set his body on the path to full-body bliss because he hasn’t. t figured out how to turn on his orgasmic turbo booster button!

Slow arousal, accompanied by deep relaxation and slow breathing, will help your man turbo boost his orgasm in altered states of consciousness. So if the average guy hasn’t figured out how to propel his body to full body orgasm, with delayed ejaculation, then most likely he would know the formula to turn a woman on!

Most men know they have a higher chance of helping their wives to orgasm if they take it easy. Men know that oral sex almost guarantees that their wives will have an orgasm.

Ladies, if given the chance to turn the tables on your man, relaxation, slow deep breathing, and long stimulating foreplay will guarantee him a full-body ecstasy for 15, 30 minutes and hours of practice!

Longer, stronger intense orgasms

Ladies, if you want to have hours of intense multiple orgasms, coach your man to achieve full body orgasms, with delayed ejaculation. You teach and coach your man to match your orgasmic energy, beat by beat in the bedroom. What I’m saying here is that if your man lasts for hours, your orgasms and satisfaction are guaranteed every time you make love to each other.

The male brain

It’s very civil these days for a man to make his wife orgasm before he can orgasm himself. Men know that once their wives come, they can loosen up and make themselves come whenever they want.

As I discussed earlier in this article, relaxation is the key for all men to learn to experience a full-body orgasm. Ladies, if your man is thinking about how he’s going to stimulate you to orgasm, or maybe he’s using head control tactics to delay his ejaculation, he’s never really relaxed enough to let his body learn to have a full-body orgasm.

Learn more about Ignite Earth Shatting Orgasms

The information I have written in this article works extremely well when taught to the average man. There are many reasons why a couple’s orgasmic appetite and sex drive don’t align. As a sexuality coach it is important to address each couple as an individual.

Aleena Aspley from Brisbane, Australia is the founder of Ra’Anui Erotic Tantra. Aleena works with singles and couples who want to learn to become better lovers, create spiritual sensual harmony and enrich their relationship.

Aleena’s most popular Australian appointment is Ra’Anui Erotic Tantra. Aleena is also available for coaching male and female intimate sensual issues via Skype Name: TantraFantasyDotComDotAu

Aleena Aspley, founder of Ra’Anui Erotic Tantra, is a certified sexology bodyworker CA, USA, Lomi Lomi Practitioner, Reiki Practitioner, Theta Healer, Manifest your Soul Mate Practitioner. Aleena also offers services such as waxing for men and spray tanning for men.